Invitation messages for your sister's wedding

When it is your sister's wedding, you end up inviting more people than you expected: your school friends, your office, the neighbours who always ask after her, and half the family group on your parents' behalf. A sister marriage invitation message from you sounds different from your parents' formal note, and it should. Below are messages for each of those people, written for a brother or a sister to send.

• What to write and for your friends
• For colleagues and for relatives on behalf of parents
• From a brother, from a sister and in Hindi and Hinglish

What to write in a sister wedding invitation message

Name your sister first and her groom second, the way the family says it at home. Give the date and city, then say which functions are open to the person you are writing to; friends are often invited to the sangeet and the wedding, colleagues to the reception.

Keep one line that only a sibling would write. It is the difference between an invitation and a forward. For messages that go out in your parents' names, the wedding invitation messages guide has formal ones.

• A template to start from Copy

  My sister [Sister] is getting married to [Groom] on [Date] in [City], and I'd love you to be there for the [function] on [Date]. All the details are here: [link] – [Your name]

Sister marriage invitation messages for your friends

Your friends know your sister through your stories. Use that.

• Friends group Copy

  Big news from my side: Didi is getting married to [Groom] on [Date] in [City]. You've all eaten her parathas, so you're all invited. Sangeet on [Date], wedding on [Date]: [link]

• Close friend Copy

  [Name], my sister's wedding is on [Date], and I need you there. You've known her since she was the one complaining about us in school. Details: [link]

• College friends Copy

  Guys, my little sister is getting married 🥹 [Sister] and [Groom], [Date], [City]. I'll be the one crying at the vidaai. Come and witness it: [link]

• Friends who'll help Copy

  My sister's wedding is on [Date], and I'm on duty from the haldi to the vidaai. If you can come a day early and help with the baraat welcome, I'll owe you forever. [link]

• Friend with family Copy

  [Name], [Sister]'s wedding is on [Date] in [City]. Please come with Bhabhi and the kids; Mummy has already asked if you're coming. [link]

• Friend in another city Copy

  I know [City] is a trip, but my sister is getting married on [Date], and it would mean a lot if you came. Stay is on us. [link]

• Simple Copy

  My sister [Sister] is getting married on [Date] in [City]. I'd be glad to have you there. [link]

Messages for your colleagues

Invite the colleagues you are close to, personally, and to a function they can reach after work.

• Close colleague Copy

  Hi [Name], my sister is getting married on [Date], and I'd be happy if you could come to the reception on [Date] at [Venue], [City]. Here's the invitation: [link]

• Your manager Copy

  Hi [Name], as I mentioned, my sister's wedding is on [Date]; I'll be on leave from [Date] to [Date]. If you're free, my family would be glad to have you at the reception on [Date]. [link]

• Small team Copy

  Hi team, my sister [Sister] is getting married on [Date]. You're all invited to the reception on [Date] at [Venue], from [Time]. Directions: [link]

• By email Copy

  Subject: My sister's wedding reception, [Date] Hi [Name], My sister is getting married on [Date], and our family would be glad to see you at the reception on [Date] at [Venue], [City], from [Time]. Invitation and map: [link] Regards, [Your name]

• Former colleague Copy

  Hi [Name], hope all's well. My sister's wedding is on [Date] in [City], and I'd love to catch up there. [link]

For relatives, on behalf of your parents

Often the children end up sending the family's invitations from their phones. Write in your parents' voice when you do, and sign with their names.

• Family group Copy

  Namaste sabko 🙏 With the blessings of our elders, [Sister]'s wedding with [Groom] is fixed for [Date] in [City]. Every function and venue is on this link: [link]. Please do come. – [Parents' names]

• To an uncle Copy

  Chacha ji, pranam. Papa asked me to send you the details of [Sister]'s wedding on [Date]: [link]. He'll call you this evening too.

• To a relative abroad Copy

  Namaste Mausi, [Sister]'s wedding is on [Date] in [City]. If you can come, we'll arrange the stay. If not, we'll share a live link of the pheras. [link]

• Neighbours Copy

  Namaste Aunty, [Sister]'s wedding is on [Date]. You've known her since she was small, so please come with Uncle. The invitation is here: [link]

• Formal relative Copy

  Respected [Name] ji, with the blessings of the family, my sister [Sister] is getting married to [Groom] on [Date] at [Venue], [City]. Mummy and Papa request your presence.

• Card by hand, details by message Copy

  [Name] ji, the card is reaching you by hand, but here are the details on your phone as well: [link]. We're looking forward to seeing you on [Date].

Messages from a brother

A brother's message can be proud, teasing or both. Keep it kind; your sister will read it in the group.

• Proud Copy

  My sister is getting married, and I couldn't be prouder. [Sister] and [Groom], [Date], [City]. Please come and bless them: [link]

• Teasing Copy

  After years of fighting over the TV remote, I'm handing her over. [Sister] weds [Groom] on [Date]. Come and watch me pretend I'm not emotional: [link]

• Elder brother Copy

  My little sister is getting married on [Date]. I've carried her school bag; now I'll carry her doli. Please be there: [link]

• Younger brother Copy

  Didi is getting married on [Date], and finally the room is mine 😄 Jokes apart, please come and bless her: [link]

• To his own friends, Hinglish Copy

  Bhai log, behen ki shaadi hai [Date] ko. Baraat ka swagat humne karna hai, toh sab time pe aana. Details: [link]

Messages from a sister

From a didi or a choti, the message usually carries a memory. One is enough.

• Elder sister Copy

  My baby sister is getting married on [Date] 🥹 [Sister] and [Groom], [City]. Come and help me get through the vidaai: [link]

• Younger sister Copy

  Didi is getting married on [Date], and I'm in charge of the mehendi. Please come for all of it: [link]

• To her own friends Copy

  Girls, my sister's wedding is on [Date]. Haldi, mehendi, sangeet, I want you at every one. Details: [link] 💛

• Twin sister Copy

  We've shared everything for [Age] years, and now she's sharing her life with [Groom]. [Date], [City]. Please come: [link]

• Hinglish Copy

  Meri behen ki shaadi hai [Date] ko 💛 Sangeet mein dance karna hai, toh practice ke liye bhi aa jaana. [link]

Sister wedding invitation messages in Hindi and Hinglish

For elders and the family group, Hindi reads warmer. More in the Hindi invitation messages guide.

• बहन की शादी, सादर निमंत्रण Copy

  हमारी बहन [बहन] का शुभ विवाह [वर] के साथ [दिनांक] को [शहर] में है। आप सपरिवार पधारकर आशीर्वाद दें। [link]

• दोस्तों के लिए, हिंदी Copy

  मेरी दीदी की शादी [दिनांक] को है। तुम्हारे बिना संगीत अधूरा रहेगा, ज़रूर आना। [link]

• बड़ों के लिए Copy

  प्रणाम [नाम] जी, [बहन] का विवाह [दिनांक] को तय हुआ है। मम्मी-पापा ने विशेष रूप से आपको बुलाने को कहा है। [link]

• Hinglish, family Copy

  Namaste! [Sister] ki shaadi [Date] ko [City] mein hai. Sab functions ki details link par hain: [link]. Zaroor aaiyega 🙏

• Hinglish, short Copy

  Behen ki shaadi, [Date]. Aana zaroor! [link]

• छोटा, औपचारिक Copy

  बहन [बहन] संग [वर], [दिनांक], [शहर]। आपकी प्रतीक्षा रहेगी। [link]

If you are the one answering every “kab hai, kahan hai?” call, send a link instead of the PDF. An invitation website on WhatsApp carries the map for each function and takes replies, and if the timing changes you update it once. For your brother's wedding, see the brother's wedding messages.